Wednesday, September 26, 2018

THE TEMPLE

BOISE TEMPLE OPEN HOUSE
October 2012

We had the privileged of touring the Boise Temple as a family on Thursday morning during it's Open House. I am so grateful for this opportunity! I'm grateful that the Temple is so close to us (literally less than 10 minutes from our house) and I'm grateful for the possibility it provides for our family to be sealed together for eternity! For FHE this week, we talked about how we would be going to the Temple and what we could/should do to prepare for it (and then carry out those ideas so we'd be ready on Thursday). On Thursday morning, we all got ready in our best church clothes (and I had the girls wear their Christmas dresses from 2 years ago (yes, they still fit! LOL) since they were all cream and so beautiful and pure looking... on a side note: I can't even remember how many of the ushers there commented on how beautiful the girls and their dresses were!). We started out in the Meetinghouse located right next door to the Temple and watched a video about the history of the church in Boise. We then went with our group (that consisted of about 20 or so people - we purposefully planned to attend at a time that wouldn't be too busy ;) and we walked across the street and proceeded with our tour through the Temple. I was SO AMAZED at how beautiful everything was!  They had literally redone the ENTIRE interior and even went so far as to change the layout of things. The Baptistry was gorgeous and now has it's own entrance and recommend desk for the youth attending. Lots of dark African Mahogany wood made up a lot of the decor and lots of stained glass as well. It literally was breathtaking! We were able to see the Brides room and sit a bit in the Sealing Room.  I told the girls that this is where they'd be getting married and they were so excited! As we entered the Celestial Room, it was requested that no one say a word (I was worried that the kids wouldn't be able to that quiet) but as we entered, I think they were all able to feel of the sacredness of the room and showed their utmost reverence to Heavenly Father and Jesus.  I was so proud of them.  I remember looking at my entire family all sitting there peacefully in the Celestial Room and wanted to cement that image into my mind forever knowing that we truly CAN be a family throughout the eternities and it made my heart swell. After the tour, we headed back over to the meetinghouse to the reception area and sat together on the couches and asked each of the kids their favorite part.  Ben shared about he felt so happy in his heart and especially liked the Celestial Room and how he could feel the Holy Ghost.  Nathan said he liked the part "with the cows and the water" because it was cool.  He also said that when he "walked into the 'Quiet Room' he felt a big BOOM in his heart" so we discussed how that's how the Holy Ghost feels. Lexi was just so thrilled to be there!  All week she had kept talking about how we were going to the Temple and she was so excited.  The day before we went, she had made a comment at dinner how she was so excited to go to the Temple the next day because she was going to see Jesus. Ben sadly crushed her spirits and made fun of her because she thought she would see him. I told her that it was natural to think that since the Temple is Jesus and Heavenly Father's house that we would see him but that we would most likely just FEEL him in our hearts and that we'd see lots of beautiful pictures of him as well.  After the tour she said her favorite part was seeing how beautiful the Temple was and how she saw Jesus there and felt him in her heart and she was so happy!  She really is a sweet little girl and always trying to obey Jesus. Earlier this week after John had gotten upset with one of the boys and raised his voice, she had gone to him and told him that he needed to  be more Gentle and that yelling is not what Jesus would have him do and that he needed to obey Jesus and not yell anymore.  Having her around definitely keeps a sweet spirit in the home :)  Aubrie's favorite part was the Celestial Room and seeing "the Beautiful Temple!".  She also spoke about her heart feeling happy and being filled with Love. Ben's favorite part was being in the Celestial Room as well.  He said that the whole Temple was just so beautiful but he especially liked how peaceful he felt inside of the Celestial Room. August said that he didn't necessarily have a favorite part of the Temple and that he liked it all!  He said he thought is was "good" and after prodding about what "good" meant, he said it meant that he thought everything was beautiful, he felt really peaceful inside and he liked being with the family. Seth shared about he thought EVERYTHING was so beautiful and even though he'd never been able to see the Temple before, he thought now it was the most beautiful ever!  He shared how he was really able to feel the Spirit and felt really peaceful inside. He also liked the new exterior that was put on and his favorite part was being with the whole family inside the Temple. (Following is John's thoughts that he wrote about his experience)...I am just so grateful to have a Temple so close to us.  I have missed it so much this last year.  As we entered within it's sacred walls, I felt peace and just a feeling of being home again.  The renovation has been extensive and you can hardly even recognize some of the areas but it is that same sweet feeling of peace and stillness - a knowledge that you are on hallowed ground.  I can't wait for it to be dedicated and for us to be able to attend once more.  It was so nice to be able to show the kids around and share with them our feelings and for them to finally have a bit of knowledge of what it's like when Mom and Dad are at the temple.  When we entered the instructional rooms, I was nearly overwhelmed and I found myself getting choked up as I imagined what it would be like to be able to go through a session with our children when they are of age.  I am grateful for the restored gospel and I am grateful that we once again have Holy Temples upon the face of the earth.

Of course we couldn't experience this wonderful even without some photos to commemorate the occasion! So here are some that I took (and I had one of the ushers take the family photo of us after I had got it all set up :)  I just love ALL.OF.THESE!






Two weeks later...
The kids (specifically the girls) kept asking to go back to the Temple again. So on  Thursday, the kids and I went back for another tour :)  It was so cute when we entered the Sealing room, Lexi turned to me and in a sweet, excited whisper said "This is where I get married!"  She was so happy to be there!  I am so excited that the Temple will be re-dedicated this next weekend and then will open for session on November 20th :)  It is such a tremendous blessing to have the Temple SOOOO close to us!  Not having the opportunity to attend as much over the past 18 months (since it's been closed for renovations) I am even more grateful for its presence!  I have missed the way I feel when I can go often (even weekly!) and it's such a great date night for John and I! :)


And then Two Weeks after that...

Saturday Night was the BIG YOUTH CULTURAL CELEBRATION in front of the prophet! I have already written down my thoughts from the night in my personal journal but wanted to give a brief re-cap of it here as well.  In addition to the Prophet, Elder David A. Bednar and his wife were in attendace along with Craig Christensen (in the Presidency of the Seventy) and his wife and William R Walker (of the Quorum of the Seventy and he is also serving as the Executive Director of the Temple Department) and his wife. John and the kids were able to go to the Stake Center and watch a live broadcast!  It was held down at the Taco Bell Arena and over 9000 youth were participating!  The Taco Bell Arena only holds about 13,000 and so this obviously didn't leave enough room for family and friends to attend. Only youth chaperones and drivers were allowed into the Arena - of which I was one!  I had a PRIME seat!  On the Parquet level (one up from the ground level) we were in the 2nd row about 20 seats to the right of the Prophet!  The Prophet started the evening off with a short talk directed to the youth. He said that he is the biggest advocate for these big events and that it gives youth something wonderful to participate in and also creating amazing memories - Memories that will be "the June Roses in the Decembers of our Lives." What I found most awesome about his talk is that he pronounced a blessing upon them that they would learn to love serving the Lord! After the words from the prophet, the 9000 youth from the Boise Temple District entertained the prophet with song and dance - it was incredible! Having the youth erupt with applause as the prophet entered the arena was amazing (I can't quite find the right words to describe the feeling in the room adequately!)... Anyway, the whole night was magical and inspiring. Our Stake did a cultural dance around Boise State Football! They practiced every week for months and it all came together beautifully!!



And then the Following Morning...
Well, this has been like none other in regards to spiritually!  Being in the presence of the prophet has been incredible!  Then this morning was the Temple Re-dedication!  Each of the boys had a worthiness interview last week and were given their "recommend" to attend the re-dedication. We switched babysitting with the Erbe's (since only worthy Baptized members can attend) and so the 3 older boys along with John and I went to the 9am session (there were 3 sessions broadcasted live throughout the day to all of the Stake Centers within the Boise Temple District). David A. Bednar conducted and we heard from both him, Elder Christensen, the Matron and President of the Boise Tempe (the Brinkerhoffs) and then from the prophet himself!  It certainly felt like a mini General Conference! I am excited to take the words of the prophet into my heart and commit to attend the Temple often and to make time for Christ and welcome him into my heart and life! After participating in the re-dedication, I feel rejuvenated want to make Christ and the Temple a priority in my life!  The prophet also challenged us to BE AN EXAMPLE OF THE BELIEVERS! The last 24 hours has truly been an amazing time for me!


 

WHAT DOES THE TEMPLE MEAN TO YOU?
2013


Today in Sunday School the topic was on Temples and the teacher posed a question for all of us:


What Does the Temple Mean To You?
I didn't contribute at the time, but that question has stuck with me all day and so thought I'd jot down my thoughts for this weeks Spiritually Speaking...
To me, the Temple means PEACE, LOVE, Forgiveness, Learning, Growing, Feeling Close to God. It means that my family is not only for the here and now on earth, but forever! It means gaining instructions on how to follow Christ's example and to know how to fully serve my fellowman. It's a place where I can go to receive personal revelation for anything in my life (and just FYI: that usually involves homeschooling and child rearing!) I'm so grateful that we have so many Temples and even though we're not in Idaho any more (where the Temple was only about 5 miles away) there's still one that we can go to for solace and peace amid the chaos of life!




CELESTIAL ROOM THOUGHTS
November 2013

It was so wonderful being in the Temple again! Since moving here to North Dakota, the Bismarck Temple (2 hours away) is our closest Temple. It has been way too long since I went last (back before we moved!).  I had some thoughts while in the Celestial Room and thought I'd record them :)

* We are here in ND because Heavenly Father wants us here. I felt that there is specific mission(s) that we need to accomplish while here. Touching people's lives for good and always being aware of moments where we can share the gospel.
* Remember to keep my APPETITES and DESIRES that the Lord has set for us
* Follow God's example of parenting - keep calm and not loose patience
* Make attending the Temple a priority. Heavenly Father knows it's a sacrifice for us to go but if we put Him first and attend regularly, we will be blessed!



YOUTH TEMPLE TRIP
BISMARCK, ND TEMPLE
Jan 2015

It made my heart so happy this week seeing my 3 handsome men heading off to the Temple (if August hadn't had to work, he would have gone too!). Knowing that they are keeping themselves worthy and that they have the desire to serve the Lord just makes me so grateful for the men they are growing up to be (and of course for the awesome man dad already is!). I know that when we draw close to the Lord and serve him (by going to the Temple, helping others, fulfilling our church callings, being a good friend and following Christ's example) that we are blessed with joy and happiness in this life!







TEMPLE QUESTIONS FOR REFLECTION
April 2015

Today was such an uplifting and spiritually rewarding Sacrament Meeting! We were privileged to have the Temple President (Osguthrope) and his wife come speak to us. He was recently released as the General Sunday School President and it truly felt like we were in General Conference when he spoke! A couple of points that stood out to me during his and his wife's talk:

* Our Homes are the only other place on earth that can be as Holy as the Temple
* We should emulate how we talk (in quiet tones) and act in the Temple in our homes as well
* Ask ourselves if we are bringing things into our homes that we wouldn't take into the Temple (Media and Entertainment came into my mind as she was speaking about this...)
* Priorities are set by our Desires (if we want to change a "bad habit" for instance, if we still have a tiny ounce of desire for that habit (over eating, smoking, drinking, gambling, etc...) then we will eventually give into the habit.
* We can not change our Desires.... on our own - we need Heavenly Father's Help

Ask ourselves these 2 questions (the next time we're in the Temple or just reflecting on life)
1. What are we doing that we should stop?
2. What are we not doing that we should start?

Again, I just felt so spiritually fed and uplifted and came away wanting to be a better person, a better wife, a better mom, a better homeschooling teacher, a better daughter of God!




REUNION TO THE TEMPLE
July 2015

For the second day of our Reunion, we had originally had 3 options for people to choose from (go to a water park, go to a Museum there in Lincoln or just hang out and visit)... and of course everyone wanted to do something different. Grandma really wanted the family to be together and so on Sunday morning, she woke up extra early with the thought that we should all go to the Winter Quarters Temple and spend the day (taking our family pictures, walking the grounds, visiting the Mormon Trails Center and having a family council/meeting). That was truly inspiration from the Lord because it was such a beautiful time for us all to be at the Temple together! We talked about how important the Temple is to us and to our family and how we know we can be an eternal family! I am so grateful for this knowledge and for the sealing powers of the Temple to bridge the gap of death so that we can be a Forever Family! It was also so special to have all of us there just being together and having no other agenda than to just BE TOGETHER! I'm grateful for the wonderful example Grandma and Grandpa have always been to me!




THOUGHTS FROM BEN
Oct 2016

So I had the chance to go to the Temple for Baptisms for the Dead this last week. I showed up early to get my Temple recommend and then we were all off! There was a big difference even as we entered the Parking lot of the Temple. You could really feel the Spirit and right then I thought to myself "This is going to be amazing!" So the youth and I went inside and we showed them our recommends, got the baptismal jump suits and hit the locker room. Then we proceeded to get dressed and walked out to the benches where we waited for everyone else. While waiting there, I felt the Spirit very strongly and I felt constantly touched and I was extremely excited to find out who I was going to be Baptized for! Then the Temple President walked in the room with a big smile beaming from his face and he had a few slips of colored paper in his hands. He looked at each and every one of us and welcomed us to the Temple and held up the pieces of paper and asked who wanted to help a family out and be baptized for their family names . There were 3 separate family packets and the first 2 were picked up almost immediately. Then I had the urge to go for the last one so I raised my hand and got the slips. After that, we all walked out to the Baptistry and took a seat and watched as my fellow peers were baptized. I was very excited and earnest to go, so when it was my turn, I walked up to the font and sat in the chairs designated for those waiting to be next. While sitting there, I prayed that the people that I was going to be Baptized for would be able to witness the whole baptism and that I would be able to feel their presence. After I was done praying, it was my turn to enter the font, so I entered the water honestly thinking to myself that nothing would happen. It was moments after the first name that I felt a presence in the room but I couldn't see anyone. I felt like the people I was being Baptized for were there watching with excitement knowing they were having their work done. It really made me feel happy inside knowing I could do this work for their salvation. It was a great and wonderful experience and I can't wait to go back and do it again.~ Ben







DELIGHTING IN TEMPLE WORK
Feb 2017

Honestly, this has been such a wonderful week for me (mom)! I recommitted to cutting out all sugars (including hidden sugars!) in my diet and I have felt sooooo good this week! I have renewed energy, renewed motivation, and rekindled my zest for life! Along with feeding my physical body better, I also felt I needed to feed my spiritual body better and FEAST upon the words of Christ in the Scriptures! I read in Nephi where he talks about how his spirit DELIGHTS in the scriptures and I thought to myself that I really wanted to have that same feeling of delight! I also read about how personal revelation comes when we really study and ponder the words vs just casually reading them. Each day as I applied these renewed principles as I approached my personal study time - I came away feeling nourished in the word! And you know what... my HAPPINESS grew! and I found that I was truly delighting in all aspects of my life. On Saturday, dad had a Stake Priesthood Leadership training meeting and so I decided to go to the Temple after I dropped him off. I only had about an hour and a half before I needed to be back to pick him up and attend the adult session of Stake Conference so I decided to just do some Initiatories. As I sat down with the first name in my hand, a beautiful feeling of peace and happiness came over me and I realized that I was truly DELIGHTING in the things of righteousness. My spirit was so delighted to be there that I literally couldn't hold back the tears. I felt so grateful to have a Temple easily accessible to me - one that I could frequent as often as I wanted! I felt gratitude to have a righteous Priesthood holder as my eternal companion and to have all of the blessings that have been bestowed upon me in life! I was able to see a glimpse of the DELIGHT that Nephi had spoken about!






FOLLOWING A PROMPTING
May 2017

OK, so this week I had a very interesting (and unusual) experience while in the Temple. I went to do the Initiatory work for our family names that the Youth had taken on their Baptism night. So I'm in there and there was a young, sweet Ordinance worker who I just felt a connection with. There were other Patrons also doing Initiatories and  so there was a few times where I had to wait with her. During one of those times I asked if she was waiting to go on a Mission and she replied "No." and so I asked if she was a Returned Missionary and again she replied "No." So I said something along the lines of "Oh..so you just wanted to get your own Temple work done and move along in the Kingdom of God - that's really neat!" (of course, I didn't really yell this but was said in a whisper)... Anyway, there were a few additional exchanges between the two of us and I just thought to myself how she was such a sweet girl who obviously has a testimony and was serving the Lord on a Friday night! So I get done with my names and I head to the Celestial room to do some pondering and praying. When I come out, I see that she is sitting on a couch located just outside the door. When she sees me, she lights up and heads my way and says "I just wanted to thank you for coming in tonight. I really enjoyed having you in the Initiatories. You made the night really fun for me and I hope you don't think I'm weird but I just wanted to come give you a hug! I asked the other workers if that was weird, but then I told them I didn't care!" I told her that I'd love a hug and so she gave me a super sweet hug outside of the Celestial Room. She asked where I lived and I told her in Park City - but she didn't know where that was (she lives in Livingston about 2 hours West of the Temple). I asked her if she'd be driving home that night (since it was already close to 9pm) and she said that she would be. I expressed a little concern for her and she said that her grandpa also works in the Temple and they ride in together (she also told me that her grandpa calls her his "Temple Buddy"). I told her how cool that was and how wonderful that she could have such great quality time with him and make some memories. So I tell her maybe I'll see her again sometime and she tells me that she works the 1st, 3rd and 5th Friday's of the month. We say our goodbyes and I head into the dressing room to get changed. While getting dressed a thought came pretty forcibly into my mind that said "You need to give that girl Seth's email for her to write to him!" It literally stopped me in my tracks and I was like "What?! No.. Seth's on a mission and he doesn't need any distractions." And the thought comes again "Give her Seth's email." Again, I have some inner dialogue with myself that consists of things like "That is too weird! I can't do that! What if she has a boyfriend.. or is engaged! I don't even know how old she is (she looked somewhere between 18-21) and plus, she is going to think I'm crazy!" So I talk myself out of it and finish getting dressed (I did do a quick search through my bag to see if I even had paper to write on - which I didn't and so I figured I couldn't do it anyway!)... I start walking out and with each step the Spirit is telling me "Don't leave without giving her Seth's email!" I'm ashamed to say that I was too embarrassed to go find her and do it and so I walked out!! The closer I got to the van the thought was "This is your only chance.. you NEED to go back!"... Again, I was too embarrassed and so continued on towards the van. I got in and started it up (and yes, you guessed it - I was still feeling prompted to go find her!) I start the van and decide to say one last prayer to make sure that it just wasn't "Me" and truly inspiration (and I do have to say that several times the thought came to me "you just received inspiration INSIDE of the Temple...and you're questioning it!?) During the prayer I felt that for some reason Seth and her need to be acquainted with each other -maybe she'll help him in some way or maybe he'll help her.. or maybe through her he'll meet someone -who knows! All I know is that when I closed my prayer I knew I had no choice but to go back in and find Lisa. So I walk back in and tell the worker at the front desk that I know they're closed but I need to run real quick back into the dressing room. (side note: while I was putting some names on the Prayer Roll, I took one of the tiny blank pieces of paper and wrote Seth's email on it!) So I get back into the Dressing Room and I'm thinking "How am I even going to find her!?" when all of a sudden out she comes from around the corner! She sees me and smiles and I motion for her to come over to me and then I say "Ok, now it's my turn to be the weird one! I don't know why, but for some reason I keep getting the feeling that I'm supposed to give you my son's email who's on a Mission." (at this point, she kind of looks at me a little strange but accepts the piece of paper that I had written it on with a smile - and yes, I was feeling very awkward! haha) I then tell her that I had actually left and was in my car and the Spirit kept telling me that for some reason I needed to come back in and give it to her (at this point, she was like "Really?! Wow!") I told her that I didn't know why and that there was no pressure and that she could do with it what she wanted  but if she did decide to write to him, she could just say "Hey, I met your mom in the Temple and she felt impressed to give me your email so I'm writing you!" (she told me that's exactly what she's going to write to him! haha) Anyway, I told her he was serving in Nicaragua and she said that one of her very good friends just got home from Nicaragua (like last week and she had just given her Homecoming Talk last Sunday).... Anyway, I told her I was embarrassed to be doing this but I couldn't ignore the prompting(s) that I had received in the Temple any longer and then we said our Goodbye's for a second time! I tell you - it was definitely not how I expected the evening to end up! And of course now I'm super curious as to how this will all play out! That's the thing though - everything in the Lords timing, right? And who knows when that will be! Honestly I feel a bit sad on this (especially now when writing it all out) that I am always such a DOUBTER when it comes to promptings and answers. I wonder why my first instinct is always Doubt and not Faith! Maybe that is a Spiritual Gift that I need to work on and plead for! If something is out of my "comfort zone" it's easy for me to rationalize the thoughts away as my own... BUT I'm so grateful for such a loving Heavenly Father who is so Patient with me and my need to have repeated promptings. I will say that the Conference Talk by Elder Rasband earlier this month kept coming to my mind about following the promptings that the Holy Ghost gives to us. He said that "We must act on the first prompting" (yikes, something I obviously did NOT do in this instance!) and that we "shouldn't question Heavenly Counsel" He also said that if we respond on the first prompting - we will be right 9/10 times and that it's pure inspiration from Heaven! I am going to work on being a "First Responder!"



DADS THOUGHTS FROM THE TEMPLE
Sept 2017

As Shandy and I attended the Temple on Saturday, I was overcome with a sense of peace and contentment. Not that I was doubting but I was just struck by a feeling from the Spirit that I was where I needed to be, doing what I was supposed to be doing. I love the Gospel of Jesus Christ. I love being a disciple. I love being Mormon. I am thankful for a Heavenly Father who loves us and knows each of us personally. I am thankful for the restoration and am honored to be a part of this work. In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.



TEMPLE WORK FOR OUR GRANDPARENTS
March 2018

So we were going for some super close relationships - we're talking Grandma and Grandpa Merrell (and then Grandpa Merrell's grandparents and great-grandparents) and also Grandma-Great (from next door on the farm) and her Grandpa. and Also Grandma Vogt's brother who died by a drunk driver when he was 21 (Daniel Merrell) and then siblings of the grandparents and such... so yeah, really close relationship wise! I had memorized the relationship that each of the names were (to me) so that when I heard their name, I would know exactly who it was. The Spirit was super strong in the baptistry and dad and I couldn't stop the tears from flowing (especially when doing his 2 grandmas). Something really cool happened when I was being baptized for a relative named Emma Young (she was dad's great-great-grandmother's sister) and as I was under the water, I heard her voice come into my mind saying "Thank you for finding me!" and just a wave of relief wash over me as she was so happy (and relieved) that she was finally baptized! It was super cool (I have since gone on a quest to find everything I could about her family! I'm happy to report that I found her husband along with his family and their child! yay! oh, I also found out that she was a school teacher working in Colorado while living with her Aunt and Uncle before she married). 

Then when it was time for the confirmations and I could just feel the room BURSTING with the Spirit! It was like every one of those people (we had taken 19 family names) were all in there together and so excited about what was taking place. They all loved each other and they loved us! I had my eyes closed the entire time (again, really thinking of the names that were being confirmed) and then even though my eyes were closed, I could see/feel the room get brighter and I thought "whoever's name is being read next is right here ready to receive the Holy Ghost!" and then dad read his Uncle Daniel Merrell's name. It was super spiritual and such an amazing experience! 


Thoughts from Dad: Our experience at the Temple was so amazing. I felt a different spirit all day as we prepared to enter into His Holy House. Any time I thought of my Uncle Dan, I started to choke up a bit. As we entered into the waters of Baptism, I baptized Ashley first for some distant relatives and then it was on to Benny. When I got to Grandpa Merrell, I felt such joy and happiness. I knew he was overjoyed! The next name was Uncle Dan. I could barely get the words at as I was overwhelmed and overcome with so much emotion. This is something that he has waited for for so long. I had a feeling of relief that washed over me as I drew Ben out of the water. Later, with Shandy, I again could barely get the words out for Grandma Merrell and Grandma Vogt. It's such a different experience completing ordinances for those you personally knew and loved.





THE MERIDIAN TEMPLE
September 2018

While Grandma Carlson was here we/she spent time working on Family History! She is persistent, diligent and digs down deep to find the information of our ancestors! She is a great example of working on family history and I'm so grateful for her! We also really wanted to take some time to attend the Temple. Both her, Seth and dad hadn't ever been to the Meridian Temple and so that's the one we wanted to go to. We decided to do Initiatories (about 5 family names each) and then met together in the Celestial Room - which was beautiful and peaceful! I'm really glad that we took the time to step away from the busyness of life and look at the eternal goals we have. And what a blessing that we have TWO Temples within 30 minutes of us! It's wonderful and we need to take more advantage of it! After the Temple, we went to Beehive Clothing and got spoiled! I got a new Temple dress that is absolutely beautiful! It's flattering, flowing and the style is so pretty! Dad got some new Temple pants and Seth a Temple Packet (and grandma got herself a new Temple sweater).   



















SEALINGS FOR OUR FAMILY
 October 2018

Dad and I are the Temple Specialists for our Ward (well, moreso dad is now that I'm in the Stake YW) and our ward was putting on a TEMPLE EXTRAVAGANZA!) The Youth were able to do the Baptisms and Confirmations for 200+ names! Then we had about 170 Initiatories done! The following week the ward apparently pooped out since no one went to the Temple to do the Endowment work... but then we had orchestrated a couple of Sealing sessions and we had more than enough members sign up/show up for that! In the session that dad and I went to - we had 17 family names to be sealed. These were not distant relatives but those that we knew in life! Grandma and Grandpa Vogt! Grandma and Grandpa Merrell along with all of their parents, and their parents on all lines! Not only that, but we were able to seal their children to them and them to their parents - what a wonderful and glorious day it must have been up in the Spirit World that day!

Here's what dad had to say about it:
We have spent a lot of time lately at the temple completing ordinances for our ancestors. Last week, everything came to fruition as we were finally able to do sealings for my grandparents, great grandparents, and great great grandparents on both sides. The Spirit was very strong in the sealing room and it felt so good to finally unite the families of my fathers and mothers with their children. We still have quite a bit to do but we have gotten a nice start! I am so thankful for the restored gospel and that we can have forever families! 




 ADDITIONAL
PICTURES OF US AT THE TEMPLE




Tuesday, September 25, 2018

TENDER MERCIES & MIRACLES

SETH'S PROM ATTIRE
April 2015

We definitely had a tender mercy from the Lord regarding Seth's Prom attire! He wasn't real excited about the prospect of spending $100-$200 on renting a tux for the night but knew he needed to have something a little more "dressy" than just his Sunday shirt and tie. We knew Lizzi's dress was tan and navy and so we had called the tuxedo rental shop here in town and asked if they carried tan suits/tux's (since we felt that would be the color that would look the best). After they confirmed that they did, Seth and I (mom) headed into town to get get measured. On the way there, Seth brought up again how he didn't like having to spend so much money for just a few hours and suggested that we look for a vest and tie at the mall (and even if he spent the same $100, that at least he'd be able to keep it). So we decided to hit a few stores first to check things out and if we weren't successful, then we'd still go hit the Tux rental place. As we got closer into town, I got the impression that we should (just for kicks) check out the thrift shops to see if there happened to be any suits that might work and Seth agreed. So we were heading to the one that I felt would be our best chance but then had another thought that we should stop at the Salvation Army first (honestly, I wasn't even going to go there since that one is usually pretty junky and we were on a tight time line)... but the feeling/thought was persistent and so we pulled into the Salvation Army and guess what!? We found the awesome 3 piece suit (that he is wearing in all of the prom pictures above) in his exact size... in the exact color we were wanting and that fit him perfectly! Best of all... the price tag of $8!!! We also found the exact navy blue colored tie that we needed there for $1! So for under $10 we had him pretty much completely outfitted! He then got a navy dress shirt for Easter and he was good to go!! I told Seth that I felt that it was because he pays an honest tithing of 10% of all he earns to the Lord that He blessed Seth in finding exactly what he wanted for a fraction of the price! That suit couldn't have been any more perfect and looked incredible against Lizzi's dress (in fact, I had several people comment to me about how sharp Seth looked and how perfectly he matched her! Even Lizzi's mom texted me and wrote that we had "hit it out of the ballpark" regarding Seth's suit). I whole heatedly believe the scripture that promises that the "Windows of Heaven will be opened and there won't be enough room to receive" all of the blessing Heavenly Father has in store for us when we pay our tithing. He has given us so much - in fact, our very lives and all he asks from us is for us to give back 1/10 of what he has blessed us with! I'm proud of Seth (and August, too!) who both have testimonies at this young age about paying tithes and offerings that they do so willingly on their own :)













WHY TO RECORD TENDER MERCIES
May 2015

In one of our morning devotionals we talked about how we really need to be recording the tender mercies (or times when we can see the Lords hand in our daily lives) for two reasons: (1) It makes us more AWARE of the Lord and all that He does for us and (2) It is good for us to be able to go back (especially in times of doubt or sorrow) and see/read about these tender mercies. I told the kids that is why I include a "Spiritually Speaking" each week with our blog entry - so that we can reflect on blessings and help from the Lord over the week. We then thought it'd be fun to pull out one of the printed blog books and read a random Spiritually Speaking. We read an entry from the Spring of 2013 about how I had a direct answer to prayer when trying to call a new counselor when I was serving as the YW President. It really was incredible at how directly my prayer was answered and the kids and I enjoyed hearing about this experience. It really helped to solidify how important this section of our family history is (both to us AND to our posterity!).




JUST IN TIME!
June 2015

We had a pretty big "Tender Mercy" from the Lord! Nathan had recently sat on Ben's glasses, and while they weren't broken into pieces, they were significantly bent and wouldn't sit on Ben's face very well. I figured that our warranty had just barely expired and so was trying to make them work for a little bit longer before taking Ben in for a new pair. Well, on last Tuesday I just kept having this persistent feeling to call the Eye Doctors and to order my contacts (I was waiting for our next paycheck to order them) but the feeling would NOT go away! Finally, after not being able to focus on anything else I decided I'd better follow the promptings and call the Eye Doctor. After ordering my contacts (which to my great surprise only came to $18 after Insurance!) I felt very strongly that I should have them check on when Ben's eyeglasses warranty expired (and explained that I thought it had already passed, but that I'd really appreciate if they'd double check for me). You can imagine my surprise when she came back on the line telling me that his warranty was still in effect and would expire THE NEXT DAY!! Needless to say, Ben and I hurried down and after they took a look at them, they agreed that he'd need a new set of frames and that the lenses looked pretty scratched so they ordered new lenses as well! I felt soooo grateful that I listened to the promptings that I had been given and was able to get a whole new set of glasses for Ben!




FINANCIAL BLESSINGS!
November 2015

We had not one, BUT TWO financial tender mercies this week (actually both were within a 12 hour period of each other)...

#1) My (mom's) phone accidentally got dropped into water and after letting it soak in dry rice for 3 days - it was obvious that it wasn't going to function properly. So after discussing it, I decided that the $100 deductible to get it replaced would just be part of my Christmas. I was sure surprised when I started the claim process and found out that the deductible was actually $200 for the iPhone 6+! What!? I didn't want to pay that much - especially right before the holidays! So I talked it over with dad and we decided that I'd just use his personal cell phone (while he used his work cell) for the next few months. Not ideal - but better than the alternative of paying $200! That night before I headed to bed, I checked my email and saw a new message from a former photography client of mine. Upon reading it, I saw that he was wanting me to do some photo editing for him and... the final bill would be close to covering the $200 deductible (and the remaining balance was something we could do!)... I immediately felt so blessed and knew that it was indeed a tender mercy from Heaven!
And

#2) Our 2014 Vogt History Blog book is quite large (435+ pages long!) and I have been so worried of the spine breaking ever since we received it that we haven't looked at it much. Well, the kids were looking through it and showing their friends some of the entries and just as I was afraid of - the spine broke! It was a sad day for me. However, I figured this would be a good excuse to get it reprinted into 2 volumes (each spanning 6 months) so that the number of pages would be more manageable and we could actually enjoy them without fear of damage. Well, it just so happened that I then received a coupon for 25% off any order with my printing company and decided that now would be as good a time as any! So last week I submitted my order with the 2 new books and have been eagerly awaiting their arrival. Well, when I mentioned my "good fortune" of the 25% off coupon to dad and how I was able to get both books for $200 he wondered why I hadn't just contacted the company first to see if they had a guarantee on their workmanship. Duh! Why hadn't I thought of that first!? I didn't feel too hopeful (since almost a week had gone by since I had placed my new order) but figured it couldn't hurt so I contacted them and... Refunded all of my money and have since shipped the two new books! I was so happy! The best part is that $200 can now be used to pay the Septic bill (which again, I wasn't thrilled to budget for around the holidays!)
Oh, and

#3) As I was typing above, it hit me that another (financial) tender mercy is that non of us have had to do ANY dental work this year AND I haven't had to take any of the kids to the doctor this entire year! What a savings that is right there!!
The scriptures tell us that when we pay our tithing that the Lord will open the windows of heaven and pour out a blessing that there shall not be room enough to receive it! I know we overlook a lot of the tender mercies and blessing in our daily lives (which is a big reason why I think the "Spiritually Speaking" section of the blog is so important - it helps me to stop and reflect upon the week and to really see the Lords hand in our life!) and the blessing from paying tithing can be in other ways (not just necessarily financial) but here are some definite examples of the windows of heaven being opened upon us!





TWO SUITS
Feb 2016

About 3 weeks ago, I (mom) was getting ready to go grocery shopping at Walmart. I was in the shower washing my hair when a very distinct thought came to me that said "You need to go to the thrift store TODAY! There is a suit waiting for you." I sort of brushed it off thinking that I didn't have time and needed to just get to Walmart and back as quick as I could (plus, I thought it was just my own thoughts because I love shopping at the thrift stores and hadn't been in a while)... So I somewhat ignore it when the thought comes even more urgently - "You HAVE to get the the thrift store right NOW!" At this point, I realize that this is certainly an impression from the Lord and so hurry and get ready and head towards the thrift store (we have 4 thrift stores in town and I didn't know which one to go to, so made a route and hit the first one). I went straight to where the men's suits are and.. nothing. So I head to the next one - and go straight back to the mens suits where I find TWO suits in what appears to be Seth's size! (side note: one of the suits was missing the pants but the tag said that it was a 2 piece suit so I start praying my heart out asking for help to find the missing pants... within about 2 minutes I had found them hanging on a rack by themself!). Like I said, I was fairly confident that they'd fit Seth but I wasn't 100% positive but figured if they didn't fit him, I would come across someone who needed them since the impression was SO strong about getting them. They each had a price tag of $19.99 and I was thrilled! I was even more thrilled when I realized that they were 75% off and so I got them for $4.99 each!!! Say what!? So I get home and casually ask Seth to try on one of the suits. He does, and... it fit beautifully!!!!! I then shared with him how the Lord is so very aware of him and how he'd inspired me to go get these suits that were in his exact size and just waiting for us to purchase them (they'd obviously been at the thrift store for quite some time since they were 75% off!). He looked so sharp in it and he ended up wearing one of them to church that week to get a "real world" feel for it! Truly so handsome! Now, both of the suits were the same size (according to their tag) but one of them was just a bit bigger (not much - but it did look a tiny bit big on him) so for fun, I had Ben try it on and... it fit him and so he's been wearing that one to church and looking snazzy! It just made me feel so very much loved and a testimony builder of how aware the Lord really is of us and our needs! He knew there was a suit in the boy's EXACT size at the thrift store and told me to go get them! How awesome is that!?

























DEPARTING MINOT
March 2016

We have certainly felt Heaven's hand in our life this week with the final departure out of Minot! Things honestly went so smoothly and well and we feel so grateful for that! The movers that were assigned to us were wonderful and they were so quick and proficient! Things went will with the house inspection and we received our full deposit back! Also, we knew that August needed to sell his car before leaving and after advertising it on the internet - it was sold to the first person that came to look at it just hours after posting it! Our friends took care of us and fed us and we just feel so blessed with how smooth it all went! Now... if we just had a place secured in Billings - then we'd all be set! :) 




MORE SUITS!
May 2016

I think there are a lot of times in our lives that we don't necessarily "see" or realize how prevalent the hand of the Lord is in our day to day living! While these past two weeks haven't necessarily had heart stopping experiences - we have had several incidences that when I look back on, I can see that we have been watched over! For instance:

* Ben has been wanting to get a new suit (the one he's been using doesn't quite fit him, but he is adamant that he wear a suit each Sunday) so off to the thrift store we went and... found one IDENTICAL to the one he's been wearing but in his correct size! Price: $5 and in perfect condition!

* While at the thrift store found another new-looking 3 piece "Modern Fit" suit in Seth's size and picked it up for just $9! We also found a sharp looking suit for August for a few bucks!!

* While Seth was weed eating the yard, he stepped on a board that had a nail protruding. The nail went through his shoe and IN BETWEEN his toes and he walked away injury free!














A NEW BEDLINER
Jan 2017

A sweet tender mercy happened: Dad has wanted to have a bed-liner for his truck (these run roughly $800). The auto body shop that has been working on repairing his truck called this week and asked if he'd like a bed liner and they could give him a super good deal at $300. As much as he would have liked this, he declined and thanked them for offering such a great deal (but kept dreaming how awesome it would be to have one!). The shop called back a day or so later and said that they had figured out a way that he could have the bed liner for FREE!!!! We felt totally blessed!





THE BACKUP PAIR
March 2017

A tender mercy happened this week to Ben. We can't get him into the eye doctor for a new prescription (and new glasses since Wiley chewed up his last pair again) for 2 more weeks, so he has been going without seeing real clearly for about 6 days... he was downstairs and said he got the feeling/thought that his backup pair of glasses were in a specific bucket. He immediately went to the bucket and reached his hand in only to pull out the spare pare of glasses!! What a blessing! He remembered to say and prayer and thank Heavenly Father for inspiring him on where to find them




BSU SCORE!
Feb 2011

Nothing feels quite like the thrill of a great deal - and I attribute all of my awesome deals to Blessings from the Lord!  Dad recently "felt the thrill" when called me up and said "so, is this what it feels like when you score on a big sale!?"

He had gotten notice that the BSU Bookstore was having a blowout sale on their Bronco Gear - Including Football Jerseys originally priced at $80 for $15!!

He called to see if he could pick up some gear for the family... how could we resist with a sale like that!?

As you can see from the photo, he really brought home the loot!!

The total price WOULD HAVE been $415!!!  We paid: $60 (plus tax).
He was able to pick up multiple items for everyone in the family!!

Now THAT'S what I call a deal and a BLESSING!



SUIT TIME AT THE GOODWILL
May 2017

That's right... another SUIT TIME at the GOODWILL!! Ben was in desperate need of a new suit that fits him. I had looked last week for Easter but didn't see any... This week, on the way to the Temple I had the feeling that I should just run into the Goodwill and check to see if they had any and so that's just what I did (see, now since this wasn't out of my "comfort zone" I easily listened on the first prompting! haha) So I head back to the suit section and... there were SIX suits in his size! I bought them all with the intention that I'd have him try them on and take back the ones that he didn't like or that didn't fit right.... Honestly he looked great in FOUR of them and for the insane prices on them -  we only took back 2 and kept the other 4! There was a Blue one for $3.99, a Gray one for $5.99 a Black one for $5.99 and an AWESOME brown one for $7.99 - so for like $24 he now has four new suits! (plus he is kind of rough on his clothing and so we figured we'd have some backups!)..I also picked up a few new ties that were really sweet for a few bucks! (pictured below is him in the brown suit along with one of the new ties)...He sure looks handsome!









PIONEER DAY ACTIVITY
July 2017

As was mentioned earlier - I was put in charge of the Ward Pioneer Activity.Originally I felt stressed and overwhelm by the idea, but with dad's help, I put a plan together that was approved by the Bishop. After that, something miraculous occurred - I wasn't stressed about it another moment! I made out the assignments, ordered the food, worked on the games and decorations and even on the day of - I felt totally calm and like I was just going to enjoy the event (not be in charge of it!)! I kept waiting for that "feeling" of stress and anxiety to hit me but it never did! I have NEVER put on something where I didn't overly stress about it! That night as I was saying my nightly prayers, I expressed my gratitude to Heavenly Father for helping me feel completely calm and non-stressed. That's when a very distinct thought came into my mind about how that was a direct blessing from having Seth serve a Mission! My heart was so touched by that and it made me want to be more mindful and on the look-out for the blessings that are (and will be) given to us because of his sacrifice and service!

Another thing we have seen the Lords hand in - is our house!! The tenants were having a very hard time finding a new rental to move into. Our property manager was helping them and even asked me to write a letter of recommendation to help them in their quest. I was also feeling anxious to have them hurry and get out so we could get our house on the market before the end of the summer! So on Fast Sunday (July 2nd), we fasted that they would be able to find a new home and quickly move out.  The following day we received their full month rental payment for July, and new they still hadn't found a place  - but we still kept praying! Well... 7 short days later, I got a message from our Property Manager saying that they had found a place and would be turning over keys the following week on July 17th!! We felt soooo grateful that our prayers had been answered so quickly! Now the plan is to have it totally repainted , and spruced up by the end of the month so we can have it on the market! And the next set of prayers will be that it moves quickly and at a great price!!



DECEMBER 2016 BLESSINGS
Dec 2016

Things that we are super grateful for the past few weeks...

* Dad wasn't seriously injured in the car accident! Things could have been much worse and are thankful they weren't
* August has been car-less for the past 3 weeks! He then got a quote for the repairs and it was too expensive to invest the amount they quoted. Then the auto shop billed him $200 for diagnosing it (which he was able to get down to $150) but still that's a lot of money for doing NOTHING! The Tender Mercy was that after talking to the manager, they got the truck running and only charged him $120 plus the promise of a food donation to their church. He was so very thrilled and attributed the miracle to him paying his tithing! We agree! I also reminded him that blessings will come to us from the Missionary service that Seth is freely giving and felt this was one of those.
* Winter Travel is always stressful - but for us all to be kept safe and to have (mostly) dry roads for both legs of the trip was a blessing!! Especially considering that within hours of leaving AND returning home, large amounts of snow fell in Billings and the surrounding areas!
* Being able to Skype with Seth! Seth was concerned about the weather impacting his ability to connect to the internet (he said it was raining really hard there and that usually causes the internet to go out). Mom prayed fervently that all would work out - and it did!! We had a good connection and minimal freezing!


CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS
Dec 2017

What a marvelous month to look back upon our blessings - the Tender Mercies from the Lord, and really take notice at how much He blesses us (even with tiny things that we often just take for granted!) Some of those blessings that came to us this month were:

* Great weather and dry roads for mom and the kids as they drove to and from Nebraska

* Decent weather for John (since he left earlier than originally planned to beat the snow!) and made it safely without incident!

* Both vehicles having no troubles and being reliable (and starting without issue is -20 weather!)

* August being hired on at 2 places and having schedules work out

* Everything being kept well at our home in MT as we were away

* Technology to be able to talk and video chat with Seth! It was a beautiful time for our family to hear all about his Mission and how things are going there.

* The ability to all be together for Christmas! There's just something so magical when the house is bustling with so much family! Excitement is in the air and you can't help but just be so happy! It was really wonderful to be with grandma and grandpa, JR, Lori and their kids and Jared, Hope and their kids! We were certainly busting at the seams, but what a way to be!

* Finding amazing deals on the gifts we were going to buy! Seriously good deals! For instance, grandma and I had been out with the girls shopping for their Christmas dresses and store after store we just weren't finding what we loved. We then decided to head over to JC Penny and off by itself we saw one (very small) clearance rack. There just happened to be 2 beautiful dresses on this rack... that just happened to be in the exact 2 sizes we needed for the girls... that just happened to fit perfectly! Originally priced at $78, we were able to purchase them for $9! Not only that, but the little cream sweater shrugs were there (also in the exact size we needed) marked down to $2 from $38 and then...at another store we just happened to find new dress shoes (the style that we liked best) and they were the only ones marked down to $9! Again, in the exact sizes we needed! So Head to toe Christmas Dresses for $20! Talk about blessings! This scenario happened over and over and we were able to get such wonderful things for a fraction of the price! I have a firm testimony that this is a direct blessing from paying a full 10% tithe each month.  When we give faithfully to the Lord, he makes the rest of our money go so much further! So much that there "won't be room enough to receive it" as the scriptures teach us.

It was also wonderful a wonderful time to focus on the Savior. We started the month out great by following the church's "Light The World" campaign (that gives a scripture each day of the month leading up to Christmas along with ideas and suggestions of things we can do/acts of service to Light the World for others). We wrote letters to friends and family, we made sure to smile at people when we were out, we helped those in need (lent a portable heater to a friend who's heat wasn't working properly along with gifts for her kids for Christmas) and gave to those less fortunate (like when the boys decided to give the single mom the rest of the Batman toys!) Since we sort of lost the momentum during the month (ooops!) I have thought that this would be something wonderful to actually do each month during 2018. Why must we wait until December to try and Light the World with our good works? I know this will bring us closer to Christ all throughout the year (plus it's all laid out for us and such a easy thing to incorporate!)




TWO MONTHS PAID
Feb 2018

Another thing I wanted to share is how mindful Heavenly Father is of us! He knows our thoughts, feelings and desires and is there to help us! So with that introduction, we had a BIG Tender Mercy and Blessing AND an answer to prayer! So we have been fiercely attacking all of our debt (3 Student Loans, 2 Vehicle Loans, Medical bills, a pretty hefty Personal Loan from when we sold our home last year and the costs that were associated with that, multiple insurance deductibles and then lets be honest - some of it is from just busting the monthly budget (biggest culprits being the food and fuel categories!) Anyway, our goal is to be 100% debt free within 2 years (which is a really aggressive goal seeing as all of that adds up to over $95K!!) In fact, the math says it can't be done in that short of a time, but I FEEL it in my heart that it WILL happen! Heavenly Father will provide a way and things will happen for this righteous desire to become a reality (like some big bonuses for John would help this move along quite quickly!) So last Sunday (Fast Sunday) I was specifically Fasting that we could be Financially Self-Reliant as quick as possible and for me to not obsess about it and to find balance (since I was fixating on the budget entirely too much and fretting about every cent coming in and going out and didn't have balance with all of my other commitments). So as I'm fasting about this we had some Divine Intervention happen at church! The Bishop came up to John and told him that there was some excess in the Ward Missionary Fund and they were going to pay for 1 month of Seth's Mission!!! John profusely thanked him and expressed how we're working really hard at getting out of debt and this was so appreciated! The Bishop then said, I feel impressed to have the Ward pay for TWO months of Seth's Mission (which actually is more like 2.5 months for us since Grandma and Grandpa Carlson generously contribute $100/month to Seth's Mission!) That evening as I was pondering about my Fast and praying, the distinct thought came to me that this was a direct answer to my prayers and a way that Heavenly Father was saying "I'm aware of you. I'm aware of your desires. Rely on me. Put your Faith in me. We can do this goal together!" What a beautiful experience! I felt so loved and known by Heavenly Father! So while I don't know exactly how we'll reach this lofty goal in the next 24 months, I have complete Faith that more experiences like this will happen during our journey to becoming Debt Free and Financially Self Reliant! In fact, the very next day we got a surprise $120 for John to take to Mexico to cover any expenses and tips that he might incur on his trip. We had already budgeted in some money for him to take and so I was able to throw all of that at our debt! Woohoo - another Tender Mercy!!





A DIVERTED TREE
April 2018

Another Tender Mercy is that we had a huge storm come through with super high winds that ended up blowing down 3 trees throughout the property (ok, that part is not the tender mercy! haha). One tree fell along the river in the backyard, another on the side yard and then one next to the drive way which *should* have fallen DIRECTLY onto dad's truck but somehow bent and went around the back bumper and didn't leave a scratch! We feel tremendously blessed about that one!










REMEMBERING THE MONTH OF MARCH
March 2018

We were also recipient to multiple other blessings throughout the month, like finding things that were lost, having an amazing Bishop, finding groceries on sale, having a knowledgeable and willing friend to help dad on replacing the engine in Josephina! and having the constant companionship of the Holy Ghost - what a blessing that is! Seriously! Grandpa Carlson called me up recently and asked how I was doing and I could only answer that everything was GREAT! I felt happy, peace, joy and LOVED by Heavenly Father!


Closing thoughts from Dad: I have also been so humbled and grateful by the love that the Lord has shown us and how mindful he is of our needs. We have seen direct answers to prayers and so many blessings. We are so grateful for the new path that August is on. The Lord blesses us as we strive to get out of debt and ultimately make it down to Nicaragua and he is mindful of our needs. We are excited for the prospect of moving back home to Idaho for the next few years and all of the new adventures that await us. God is Good!




BLESSINGS DURING APRIL
April 2018 

So many Tender Mercies  have been bestowed upon us this past month! Seriously, so very many!! Things that some may not see as the hand of the Lord, we give complete and total credit to Him! Some examples:

* Grandma Carlson being able to fly out last minute to help us load, clean and move to Idaho! I seriously don't know how I would have gotten everything done without her! She made this stressful time be fun and kept things in perspective for us. Before she left, we were able to get the main floor all unpacked (and mostly put away!) plus did shopping for some CUTE DECOR and got our pantry stocked!! oh, and don't forget getting new summer clothes for the kids too! Wowie!!


* All vehicles making it perfectly to Idaho


* No issues with the UHauls or trailers!


* The Laurel Ward all coming together on Wednesday night (including the YM and YW) and by the time they left, the house was all packed up and most of the cleaning and yard work was done! wow! it was certainly a whirlwind of people for about 2 hours and then... silence! haha


* the 25 people from the new Nampa 11th Ward that showed up bright and early on a Saturday morning to help us unload! We even got our entire kitchen unpacked before the last one left!


* Being welcomed so warmly into our new ward... Mom was already invited to her first "Girl's Night" and Ben had his first game night with boys from the Ward!


* Finding such an incredible and beautiful home to move into - all while being under budget to put more towards debt! 


* No major injuries occurred from all of the heavy lifting and moving! Granted we have sore backs and muscles but nothing that "put us out!" 


* Seth being kept safe during all of the disturbances over in Managua  





THE MIRACLE IN AUGUST'S LIFE
June 2018

Dear Old Dad here -

It's amazing how with persistence, faith, and patience - The Lord works miracles. One huge miracle is how much August's life has changed in the last four months.  He has gone from dating a non-member girl for five years who wanted nothing to do with the Church, didn't support him going on a mission to being engaged to a righteous, worthy daughter of our Heavenly Father with plans to serve a mission before they are sealed for time and all eternity in the House of the Lord.

When August made the decision to move to Nebraska to live with Joey and Pam, we really felt like there might be amazing things in store for him. I began to fast and pray that he would meet a beautiful, righteous girl who would aggressively pursue him because I knew that was what it would take to pry him out of the hands of Cami. I prayed for this for nearly a year.

Enter McKendra Dinkel who stole his heart and has been a wonderful girlfriend to him. We are so grateful and for the change she has brought to his life.

A big part of August's patriarchal blessing discusses his mission. A mission that up until now, has seemed like it would go unfulfilled. This has saddened us because we have seen that there are so many blessings that Heavenly Father has in store for August and that so many of them are predicated upon his willingness to serve a mission and sacrifice two years of his life to serve the Lord and his brothers and sisters in the mission field. We knew that August could still be happy without serving a mission but we knew there was so much more for out there for him if he did. Every time I have laid my hands upon his head to give him a blessing - whether it was a baby blessing, a Father's blessing, or an ordination to an office in the Priesthood - I have had the direct impression from Heavenly Father that big things had been planned for August since the pre-existence that The Lord had planned on August being a leader in His Church. I don't know exactly what that entails but ,my patriarchal blessing has stated that there would be those among my children who would hold positions of high honor in the Church.


August and McKendra flew out on June 5th, were engaged on June 7th, and had decided to both serve missions on June 9th. Our heads are just spinning with how much things have changed for our beloved son in just a few short months. I know that the Lord has a plan for each one of us. If we will remain true and faithful and will follow His plan, miracles will happen.





SAVED ON HIGH ADVENTURE
July 2018

Written by Ben...So, this week I had the opportunity to go on High Adventure, and lemme tell ya. . . It was EXHAUSTING!!!!! we climbed two mountains, but I'm not here to tell you all about high adventure, I'm here to tell you about the experience I had coming on the way down from one of the mountains.

Let me start off by saying that it was extremely steep, and the whole way down was made up of lose rocks and dirt, and I was honestly ready to throw in the towel- thing was, I couldn't. I had four more miles to the bottom.
It was down on of the most steepest declines of the whole area when I lost my footing and and fell forward. It was an eight to ten foot drop, and at the bottom, a bunch of jagged rocks that were sure to bash my entire skull in.
My thoughts were scrabbled during the processes, It was going by in such a blur, and my momentum was going to hurl me off to my certain fate (or at very least, a broken face and other snapped bones). I was preparing for the fall when something grabbed me by the backpack and threw me backwards onto the forest floor.
I was shocked. . . I was alive, and not even injured. I looked over at my Bishop who was staring at me in shock- we both knew that I was saved by an angel.
I quickly stood up, and without question, said a prayer of thanks, for I knew that my Heavenly Father had saved me.
For the rest of the way down, I had a few more times where I should've been seriously injured or killed, but was somehow saved last second. While nearing the bottom, I had personal revelation that those who ministered unto me and saved my life were my future children, and I am eternally grateful for the safety they and our Heavenly Father gave me.






CONTINUED BLESSINGS
September 2018
  
I truly believe that Seth will continue to see blessing from his service as a Missionary all throughout his life. One came about a week and a half after arriving home in the form of a job being handed to him! One of the owners of American Construction Supply heard that he was looking for a job to earn money for school and so called him up and offered him a 40 hour, 8-5pm M-F job making $11/hour! AND... the job location is only 3.5 miles from the house so he has been able to come home for lunch each day :) After starting, he was offered another job making $15/hour and is praying/fasting today to see if he should take that one. After doing the math, he figures he could make an extra $2,000 between now and leaving for school in January... that's quite the difference! I have no doubt (and hopefully he doesn't either!) that this is a direct blessing from the Lord to have not one, but TWO jobs approach him!